Here are 20 things I’ve learned in 20 years of marriage.
1. Don’t compare him to someone else.
2. Practice Gratitude
3. Never stop dating each other
4. Pray for your marriage and husband daily not on special rituals, only ;-)
5. R-E-S-P-E-C-T
6. Forgiveness is Crucial
7. Nurture your friendship
8. Laugh regularly, you can gossip with him, try it…
9. L-I-S-T-E-N to him
10. Serve each other- innumerable times he has cooked and packed my tiffin and that too with ultimate finesse.
11. Die to be with him
12. Speak words of love and affirmation
13. Let the hard times draw you close- those who know US well, can vouch for it…
14. Go for long drives- it feels so good, when Ajay goes with me on my business trips….of course when he has an offJ
15. Discover his love language
16. DON’T keep secrets from each other- never ( our kids can vouch for it…they know if I know it, Ajju has to know it soon…)
17. Make intimacy a priority
18. Don’t bring up past mistakes
19. Do all things with grace and love, even the ones that you don’t like.
20. Never bring up a difficult matter until the meal is eaten and don’t carry the topic till next day.
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